My work involves making unconscious patterns conscious so that it can be examined and worked on. Otherwise, ineffective patterns of relating continue. Most problematic may be that children unconsciously pick up on these patterns and not only repeat them, yet carry them into the next generation.
Our problems are like energy and once transformed, you, your child, your partner can be free to be that person you dreamt of. Mr. Rogers from Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood said “ what is mentionable is manageable”. Research shows that something as simple as giving a name to a feeling calms our nervous system. Bringing consciousness to any problem is at the heart of my work and desire to restore you to your authentic self.
“You are only as happy as your most unhappy family member” bears much truth and solving this problem runs through individuals, couples, families and children.